The Good: I take good care of my loved-ones. I am loyal to them, I gladly cook for them, listen to them and make time for them, no matter what.
The Bad: I can be impatient if things do not go as I expect. Getting older I am aware of this negative trait of mine and try to stay calm. Then I convince myself it is not the end of the world if things do not go as I think they should.
The Ugly: I forgive but do not forget. Actually I am not really fond of this. It feels like I have lost my spontaneity and innocence but I see this as my self-protection mechanism. This attitude keeps me to stay alert when red flags are emerging. Then I know how to act.
Ah you know what, it is ok to have the bad and the ugly as we are all human, we are not perfect. The question is: what do you do about them? Do you learn how to get rid of them or how to acknowledge and accept them as part of yourself?